Four of us mothers from my daughter's elementary school got together and gave ourselves a special treat this Friday.

The first destination after we dropped kids at school is this Kimuchi House, in Gardena.

They make various kinds of Kimuchi and pickles and sell to local grocery stores. It's much cheaper buying it here than buying it at those grocery stores. A glass jar of Kimuchi is around $8 here. I bought a jar of Kakuteki (pickled radish cubes).

The next destination is a massage house called Foot Reflexology, back in Torrance. There were many of these small rooms with two beds each, and four of us were divided into two rooms. We enjoyed 30 minuets of foot reflexology and 30 minutes of body massage for $25. All those people working here were Chinese. I almost fell asleep. We will come back.

The last destination is a Korean restaurant called Da Maat. All four of us ordered Sundofu with varying degree of spiciness. We paid $11 apiece including tax and tip. It was pretty good. We just kept talking and talking for 2 and half hours until 3:00 pm when we picked up our kids. It's a blessing that I was able to make friends with these nice people. It's also a blessing that we have hard working husbands who allows us to enjoy this luxurious time. We have a next plan; two families watch the other families' kids and those two kids free couples go on a date.